My Sweetie

So anyway I went through what has to be most guys worst nightmare last night, my wife and my girlfriend met.

Not a nightmare for me, they hit it off as well as we had all hoped, it looks like they are going to be pretty good friends, not just tolerate each other. So now I have my wife (who I call my Luv-Luv) and my girlfriend (who I call my Sweetie), they both want me to stay the night with my Sweetie this weekend and maybe also do something as a big family group also. My Sweetie is starting to think seriously about having a child with me, the only concern there is coming out of the Poly closet to my parents and my in-laws. We will probably have to come out to Sweeties family fairly soon, her mom is starting to make noises about meeting me and none of us want to actually lie about our relationship. I will probably come out to my little sister fairly soon, I think she might be fairly accepting, and I am pretty sure Luv-Luv's little sister will not have any problems either. That reminds me that I need to tell our Dearest Friend about Sweetie so they can meet when DF is in state in July.

Fortunately there are some friends where coming out is not an issue, like the poly lesbian couple, the open triad and some friends who also happen to be in the kink community.

Arghhhh.. all the logistics of coming out make my head hurt, but I am not going to force myself to stay in the closet. On to a more pleasant subject, Luv-Luv was just given a mid-range KitchenAide stand  mixer, we are already prioritizing the purchase of additional attachments. I can't wait to see if I notice an impact on her already good cooking, I sure like the results of the pressure canner we got 2 months ago.